The Northern Star

Published on 10 November 2025 at 15:43

I have a deep love for the North. Yes, it’s colder and sometimes a bit more crowded, but there’s something invigorating about the chill on my skin—it’s like an instant wake-up call, even more refreshing than cold water therapy. The people here are refreshingly genuine; they speak their minds directly, without beating around the bush. This straightforwardness resonates with me, as it’s part of my heritage. My family has deep roots in the North, with ties to Hull, York, Doncaster, Leeds, Selby, Preston and, of course, my granddad, who was a proud Geordie.

There’s no cold, hard stares here—just a warm, genuine, and creative atmosphere that isn’t just for show. It’s surprising this place isn’t more well-known, though its reputation for being a bit rough might have something to do with it. Personally, I find smaller areas to be more cliquey, with social dynamics I’d rather avoid. The beaches are vibrant and full of life, with colorful, spirited people all around. And if you’re willing to travel an hour or so, depending on where you are, you’ll find nature in all its stunning abundance.

I often find myself coming here during the winter to unwind, hibernate, and let go of what no longer serves me. While no place is perfect, the people here feel undeniably warmer and more approachable. Since arriving, I’ve explored several places and noticed something refreshing – folks here genuinely love to chat. They’re candid yet humorous, and if they think you’re a bit quirky, they’ll tell you with a smile instead of walking away silently or judging you behind your back. So far, I haven’t encountered anyone who takes things too personally, which is such a breath of fresh air.

For the longest time, I felt like I was tiptoeing through life, afraid to truly be myself. Now, I want nothing more than to sing, dance, and laugh without hesitation. The North, with its unique charm and iconic landmarks like the Angel of the North, inspires this freedom. If you can't appreciate the beauty and spirit of this region, you're missing out on something extraordinary. Here, diversity isn’t just a concept—it’s a way of life. It’s woven into the very fabric of the community, so natural that it doesn’t need to be taught; it simply exists. Coming from a diverse background myself, I’ve come to understand why I sometimes felt out of place elsewhere. It wasn’t because I was doing anything wrong—it was simply that I hadn’t found the right people to surround myself with.

For the longest time, I felt disconnected—almost as if life had lost its spark—especially in the wake of my father's passing.  But here, I’ve discovered a sanctuary where I can finally listen to the soft whispers of my soul and reclaim my voice. Together, we’re building a community—not out of obligation, but as a true reflection of who we are at our core. A treasure trove of rough diamonds awaits, intertwined with the magic of the iconic Angel of the North and the guiding Northern Star. The sunsets here are nothing short of breathtaking, creating moments that leave you in awe.

It’s the paradox of being both seen and unseen—caught in the embrace of joy, or maybe just the illusion of it. If you’ve never journeyed to the North, there’s no better time to discover it. Hidden within this vast, enchanting region lies a treasure trove of wonders waiting to be explored. Take Haworth, for instance—often called Brontë County—a place that exudes an undeniable charm. The pubs here are warm and welcoming, a stark contrast to the eerie unease you might imagine from a scene in *An American Werewolf in London*. So, open your heart, broaden your horizons, and give the North a chance to captivate you.

Reconnect with your inner child and embrace the joy of letting go. Love meaningful conversations? So do we—let’s share stories and laughter together. What are you waiting for? Discover the magic of the North today!